It isn't a secret that women tend to go below their bar of standards with the type of men they go for. Standards of behaviour and treatment. Rather than dating and accepting the man you are with, you date the potential of what you are looking for. You become the obstacle in your own life, enduring heart wrenching pain while protecting him from the pain of losing you. He messes up, yet you question yourself and wonder what you could have done differently.
Claiming to be a queen and knowing your worth, yet you wait for him to queen you, before you know your worth. Constantly stuck between fuck you and I miss you. Forgetting that missing is part of the moving on process and feeling fucked over should never be part of the relationship process.
When he acts like it’s a burden to love you, why do you stay? Have you heard the saying “I never make the same mistake twice? I make it five or six times, just to be sure” The truth is you don’t make the mistake to be sure, you already know the truth; you repeat the mistake in hopes it will stop being a mistake. Being unsure of where you stand in your relationships, is likely to lead to expectations not being met. We are so quick to love others unconditionally and deny ourselves love in that process. Why do you make it your job to make him fall in love with you or even commit to you? That is not your job. If you don’t like being treated like a doormat, then it’s time to get off the floor.
Claiming to be a queen and knowing your worth, yet you wait for him to queen you, before you know your worth. Constantly stuck between fuck you and I miss you. Forgetting that missing is part of the moving on process and feeling fucked over should never be part of the relationship process.
When he acts like it’s a burden to love you, why do you stay? Have you heard the saying “I never make the same mistake twice? I make it five or six times, just to be sure” The truth is you don’t make the mistake to be sure, you already know the truth; you repeat the mistake in hopes it will stop being a mistake. Being unsure of where you stand in your relationships, is likely to lead to expectations not being met. We are so quick to love others unconditionally and deny ourselves love in that process. Why do you make it your job to make him fall in love with you or even commit to you? That is not your job. If you don’t like being treated like a doormat, then it’s time to get off the floor.
