Why He Pulls Away… is a relationship guide for women of all ages who want to make their men fall in love with them over and over again! Every woman wants to feel desired in her relationship, but the truth is that men are not very consistent in making us feel that way, which can be most disconcerting.
I’m sure you know exactly what I mean… Of course we are going to feel confused if one minute the guy is all over us and the next he seems to be pulling away for no apparent reason. Especially when it feels as though the more you pursue him, the further away he seems to get. It is the most annoying contradiction.
So, you are reading this book because you want to attract and keep the love of your life. You want to understand why men seem to ruin everything for no apparent reason by trying to create this annoying distance. You want to know the secret to making your man fall back in love with you over and over again.
The thing is, I don’t personally think you can make any man fall in love with you, and why would you want to? Love is a sort of magical emotion that pops up when you least expect it; that is why it feels like such a wonderful gift. You can’t dictate how it works or who will fall under its spell. Few of us truly understand love fully, and so, ultimately, it just ends up playing havoc with our emotions. The good news is that if you have a man who is in love with you, and it seems as though he is pulling away from the relationship, it probably isn’t because he has fallen out of love with you.
There is a secret and a very simple strategy that all women need to know that will save your relationship. That is what we will be exploring in this book. It is the essential secret that will discourage you from making the fatal mistake that all women tend to make when their men pull away in the relationship. Don’t beat yourself up about this; if you are a woman, then it is natural to react in this way. It is just unfortunate that the natural female instinct to chase after her man produces such catastrophic results for the relationship.
The secret you are looking for, however, resides in what I like to call the Elastic Band Philosophy. It will probably be quite obvious once you begin to think about it. Once you fully understand the concept I am about to describe to you though, you will be able to use this simple strategy to take control of your relationship. You will feel more relaxed, reassured, and confident that you are not the problem. Essentially, you will be able to recognize exactly what is happening in your relationship and why, without having to worry about it. Instead, you can just get on with enjoying your life; safe in the knowledge that your man loves you and that you understand what to do to keep him falling in love with you over an over again....
I’m sure you know exactly what I mean… Of course we are going to feel confused if one minute the guy is all over us and the next he seems to be pulling away for no apparent reason. Especially when it feels as though the more you pursue him, the further away he seems to get. It is the most annoying contradiction.
So, you are reading this book because you want to attract and keep the love of your life. You want to understand why men seem to ruin everything for no apparent reason by trying to create this annoying distance. You want to know the secret to making your man fall back in love with you over and over again.
The thing is, I don’t personally think you can make any man fall in love with you, and why would you want to? Love is a sort of magical emotion that pops up when you least expect it; that is why it feels like such a wonderful gift. You can’t dictate how it works or who will fall under its spell. Few of us truly understand love fully, and so, ultimately, it just ends up playing havoc with our emotions. The good news is that if you have a man who is in love with you, and it seems as though he is pulling away from the relationship, it probably isn’t because he has fallen out of love with you.
There is a secret and a very simple strategy that all women need to know that will save your relationship. That is what we will be exploring in this book. It is the essential secret that will discourage you from making the fatal mistake that all women tend to make when their men pull away in the relationship. Don’t beat yourself up about this; if you are a woman, then it is natural to react in this way. It is just unfortunate that the natural female instinct to chase after her man produces such catastrophic results for the relationship.
The secret you are looking for, however, resides in what I like to call the Elastic Band Philosophy. It will probably be quite obvious once you begin to think about it. Once you fully understand the concept I am about to describe to you though, you will be able to use this simple strategy to take control of your relationship. You will feel more relaxed, reassured, and confident that you are not the problem. Essentially, you will be able to recognize exactly what is happening in your relationship and why, without having to worry about it. Instead, you can just get on with enjoying your life; safe in the knowledge that your man loves you and that you understand what to do to keep him falling in love with you over an over again....
