Learn how to have great dates -more fun and more rewarding- by reflecting on the purpose of dating and by using the 6 building blocks for date planning. Dinner and drinks is an out-of-date strategy (no pun intended) for meeting people, and lots of people are programmed to run through the same sets of topics for getting to know each other: What do you do? What do you like to eat? What movies do you watch? What music do you listen to? These boring dates are a learned behavior. It's time to retrain ourselves to make dating what we want it to be: a fun way to get to know people and share time together, whether it is a single date or a lifelong pairing.
More Great Dates is a practical guide, with an easy to follow strategy for planning better dates. Great dates won't take more money, Great dates won't take sacrifices. Great dates won't take therapy. Great dates won't take years, months, or even weeks of studying. You can read the book today, and have a great date planned for tomorrow.
There are date examples in this book, but the point is not to give you a list of date ideas to follow. There are countless websites with lists of "creative date ideas." The risk of relying simply on a list of date ideas is that you'll just go from having bad dates in restaurants and bars to having bad dates in zoos, parks, golf courses, shooting ranges, ice rinks, and wherever else the lists send you. More Great Dates emphasizes creating a space for engagement using activities that you enjoy. You may not find your soul mate on a date, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun. After practicing the planning and set-up techniques in this book a few times, the process should become second nature. You'll be able to turn any activity or situation into a great date.
Change the dating world. Your dates will be impressed. Dates have thanked me for being original when I use these techniques. Dates have called it a breath of fresh air. My friends have significant others who ask, "Why can't you take me on a date like Thomas?" Stop wasting time, and start having fun again.
What is covered:
- Why dinner dates are terrible.
- Reflecting on a purpose for a date.
- Six building blocks for planning a great date.
- Example dates, including personal experiences from me and people I know.
- Breaking the Rules: Adjusting and improvising with the six building blocks in mind.
No padding. No fluff. It's a manual, not a novel. More Great Dates is approximately 20 pages of text. The word count is 7000. There are also illustrations and graphics to reinforce the written information.
More Great Dates is a practical guide, with an easy to follow strategy for planning better dates. Great dates won't take more money, Great dates won't take sacrifices. Great dates won't take therapy. Great dates won't take years, months, or even weeks of studying. You can read the book today, and have a great date planned for tomorrow.
There are date examples in this book, but the point is not to give you a list of date ideas to follow. There are countless websites with lists of "creative date ideas." The risk of relying simply on a list of date ideas is that you'll just go from having bad dates in restaurants and bars to having bad dates in zoos, parks, golf courses, shooting ranges, ice rinks, and wherever else the lists send you. More Great Dates emphasizes creating a space for engagement using activities that you enjoy. You may not find your soul mate on a date, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun. After practicing the planning and set-up techniques in this book a few times, the process should become second nature. You'll be able to turn any activity or situation into a great date.
Change the dating world. Your dates will be impressed. Dates have thanked me for being original when I use these techniques. Dates have called it a breath of fresh air. My friends have significant others who ask, "Why can't you take me on a date like Thomas?" Stop wasting time, and start having fun again.
What is covered:
- Why dinner dates are terrible.
- Reflecting on a purpose for a date.
- Six building blocks for planning a great date.
- Example dates, including personal experiences from me and people I know.
- Breaking the Rules: Adjusting and improvising with the six building blocks in mind.
No padding. No fluff. It's a manual, not a novel. More Great Dates is approximately 20 pages of text. The word count is 7000. There are also illustrations and graphics to reinforce the written information.
