This book helps people with mental and physical disabilities and a number of chronic illnesses deal with love and sex in a mature way.
Everyone has certain desires and needs. We have to deal with them the best way possible with what we got.
The chapters are as follows:
Chapter 1. Sex & Disability or Illness
Chapter 2. Sex & Disability Resource Information
Chapter 3. Love & Sex Mentally Challenged
Chapter 4. Sex Education For Disabled People
Chapter 5. Challenged People Dating
Chapter 6. Sex & Illness Basics
Chapter 7. Disability Resources
I include dating websites for these categories:
Deaf Dating Websites
Disabled Dating Websites/ Disability Dating Websites/ Special Conditions Dating Websites
Disease Dating Websites
Mental Illness Dating Websites
STD Dating Websites/ AIDS Dating/ HPV Dating
Herpes Dating Websites
BDSM Disabled People
If you have a serious illness, sex doesn’t really matter. It’s about your life. People who have a serious or chronic illness probably feel tired a lot of the time. They may be in pain, on medicines and having treatments that can affect their sex life.
They may have a surgery that changes how their body looks.
You might be worried about dying.
Learn about your illness and how to maximize healing. Try #610-619 at the library.
Plan sexual activity for the time of day when you feel the best.
Limit the amount of alcohol you drink. It’s a depressant.
Focus on non-intercourse sex like tantric sex people do. Be romantic, touch, kiss, etc. with no expectation of intercourse.
Tell your partner what you like and do not like. Listen to your partner's likes and dislikes.
Try different things and sexual positions.
Talk to your lover about it.
Use sex toys.
Talk to your doctor. If you’re a man, he can prescribe a sex pill.
Some people say sex toys were first invented by doctors specifically for disabled people.
In 1971, Gosnell Duncan made medical-grade silicone sex toys for people in the disabled community.
If you buy a sex toy, you might have to adapt it to serve you.
There are butt plugs or the egg vibrator that you stick into an orifice.
You prop fleshlights against an immovable object.
Aneros toys are prostate massagers that work as you squeeze your pc muscles.
There’s a vibe panty you wear to vibrate the clit controlled by a remote control.
There is a vibrating cock ring.
Try different toys
Invent one if you got the inspiration. I invented one. I couldn’t find an investor for it.
I’ve examined a lot of sex toys. My final analysis is that there still are not great hands-free sex toys out there that you can turn on and off and vary the intensity with a remote control. The big sex toy at least for men doesn’t exist right now.
Go to advancedmasturbation.com and read about guys saying they bought particular sex toys but abandoned them because they didn’t do the job good enough.
Those sex swings can help put you in a position to have sex.
equalitytechnology.org/adaptive_devices.htm
xensual.net, sex toys for disabled people.
disaboom.com/sexuality-and-disability
sexualhealth.com/channel/view/disability-illness/
intimaterider.com, helps with sex for disabled people.
mypleasure.com
thestockroom.com
sexuality.about.com/od/disability/tp/adaptsextoys.htm
Xandra "Disabilty" Catalog
165 Valley Dr.
Brisbane, Ca 94005
800-242-2823
xandria.com
Adult products.
I heard a radio show that talked about several organizations that try to help people with disabilities with sex in two main ways:
Educate their caregivers that they are sexual and it must be addressed if it comes up in conversation.
Disabled people want sexual surrogates.
The groups were:
Equal Rights For Sexual Expression, Canada
The TLC Trust for Britain.
They mentioned a group for Australian disabled people to get sexual surrogates.
There is a group for Denmark.
Send me sex and disability organization
Everyone has certain desires and needs. We have to deal with them the best way possible with what we got.
The chapters are as follows:
Chapter 1. Sex & Disability or Illness
Chapter 2. Sex & Disability Resource Information
Chapter 3. Love & Sex Mentally Challenged
Chapter 4. Sex Education For Disabled People
Chapter 5. Challenged People Dating
Chapter 6. Sex & Illness Basics
Chapter 7. Disability Resources
I include dating websites for these categories:
Deaf Dating Websites
Disabled Dating Websites/ Disability Dating Websites/ Special Conditions Dating Websites
Disease Dating Websites
Mental Illness Dating Websites
STD Dating Websites/ AIDS Dating/ HPV Dating
Herpes Dating Websites
BDSM Disabled People
If you have a serious illness, sex doesn’t really matter. It’s about your life. People who have a serious or chronic illness probably feel tired a lot of the time. They may be in pain, on medicines and having treatments that can affect their sex life.
They may have a surgery that changes how their body looks.
You might be worried about dying.
Learn about your illness and how to maximize healing. Try #610-619 at the library.
Plan sexual activity for the time of day when you feel the best.
Limit the amount of alcohol you drink. It’s a depressant.
Focus on non-intercourse sex like tantric sex people do. Be romantic, touch, kiss, etc. with no expectation of intercourse.
Tell your partner what you like and do not like. Listen to your partner's likes and dislikes.
Try different things and sexual positions.
Talk to your lover about it.
Use sex toys.
Talk to your doctor. If you’re a man, he can prescribe a sex pill.
Some people say sex toys were first invented by doctors specifically for disabled people.
In 1971, Gosnell Duncan made medical-grade silicone sex toys for people in the disabled community.
If you buy a sex toy, you might have to adapt it to serve you.
There are butt plugs or the egg vibrator that you stick into an orifice.
You prop fleshlights against an immovable object.
Aneros toys are prostate massagers that work as you squeeze your pc muscles.
There’s a vibe panty you wear to vibrate the clit controlled by a remote control.
There is a vibrating cock ring.
Try different toys
Invent one if you got the inspiration. I invented one. I couldn’t find an investor for it.
I’ve examined a lot of sex toys. My final analysis is that there still are not great hands-free sex toys out there that you can turn on and off and vary the intensity with a remote control. The big sex toy at least for men doesn’t exist right now.
Go to advancedmasturbation.com and read about guys saying they bought particular sex toys but abandoned them because they didn’t do the job good enough.
Those sex swings can help put you in a position to have sex.
equalitytechnology.org/adaptive_devices.htm
xensual.net, sex toys for disabled people.
disaboom.com/sexuality-and-disability
sexualhealth.com/channel/view/disability-illness/
intimaterider.com, helps with sex for disabled people.
mypleasure.com
thestockroom.com
sexuality.about.com/od/disability/tp/adaptsextoys.htm
Xandra "Disabilty" Catalog
165 Valley Dr.
Brisbane, Ca 94005
800-242-2823
xandria.com
Adult products.
I heard a radio show that talked about several organizations that try to help people with disabilities with sex in two main ways:
Educate their caregivers that they are sexual and it must be addressed if it comes up in conversation.
Disabled people want sexual surrogates.
The groups were:
Equal Rights For Sexual Expression, Canada
The TLC Trust for Britain.
They mentioned a group for Australian disabled people to get sexual surrogates.
There is a group for Denmark.
Send me sex and disability organization
