**Warning – This ebook analyzes the rude and critical nature of Aspie and OCPD husbands. It is intended to be a support guide for the non-spectrum and neurotypical partners who marry these men. The book is not intended to be read by a person with Asperger’s Syndrome or OCPD, as it puts names and labels to the abrasive and abusive behaviors that are typical with the brain wiring and genetics at the root of the spectrum disorders. Thank you.**
Many people walk into marriage counseling with the same goal. They are living with someone who has a critical, negative and grumpy nature. They feel that they are enslaved by this negative person in their life. One partner’s personal growth is drastically hindered by the other partner’s sharp tongue, rude comments and critical nature.
If you aren’t married to one of these types, you have surely met them on the street or at work. They are the people with road rage who cannot control their outburst. Shaking their fists angrily out the window, they are shouting obscenities as they drive by you. You might even wonder if they have Tourette’s Syndrome. They are the rude person on the elevator that lets the door slam in your face. They are the critical person in the restaurant who is too stingy to leave a decent tip.
These people are rigid and inflexible at work. They blatantly refuse to delegate work to others. They are the ones who are vying for the promotion without ever doing enough to warrant getting one. They can’t participate in the small talk around the office water cooler, but they will complain to anyone who listens how they were passed up in favor of a coworker. They complain loudly about how their boss and their fellow team mates must not like them.
Believe it or not, some women are attracted to these abrasive types. You might be one of them. The strong and masculine person who you can’t live without is sometimes your worst enemy. You love his intellect and his people-pleasing tactics, but they are sharply cancelled out by his rude and impulsive behavior. It is no wonder that 80-90% of people divorce the critical-natured man who cannot seem to get along with anyone.
So, where does the critical nature come from? There are many reasons for a man with Asperger’s Syndrome or OCPD to be critical or abrasive.
Download now to read more
Many people walk into marriage counseling with the same goal. They are living with someone who has a critical, negative and grumpy nature. They feel that they are enslaved by this negative person in their life. One partner’s personal growth is drastically hindered by the other partner’s sharp tongue, rude comments and critical nature.
If you aren’t married to one of these types, you have surely met them on the street or at work. They are the people with road rage who cannot control their outburst. Shaking their fists angrily out the window, they are shouting obscenities as they drive by you. You might even wonder if they have Tourette’s Syndrome. They are the rude person on the elevator that lets the door slam in your face. They are the critical person in the restaurant who is too stingy to leave a decent tip.
These people are rigid and inflexible at work. They blatantly refuse to delegate work to others. They are the ones who are vying for the promotion without ever doing enough to warrant getting one. They can’t participate in the small talk around the office water cooler, but they will complain to anyone who listens how they were passed up in favor of a coworker. They complain loudly about how their boss and their fellow team mates must not like them.
Believe it or not, some women are attracted to these abrasive types. You might be one of them. The strong and masculine person who you can’t live without is sometimes your worst enemy. You love his intellect and his people-pleasing tactics, but they are sharply cancelled out by his rude and impulsive behavior. It is no wonder that 80-90% of people divorce the critical-natured man who cannot seem to get along with anyone.
So, where does the critical nature come from? There are many reasons for a man with Asperger’s Syndrome or OCPD to be critical or abrasive.
Download now to read more
